Keisha Greaves is the founder of Girls Chronically Rock, an adaptive fashion consultant, and a self-advocate. In a new blog series, Keisha will share her story, as well as her perspective on key issues for the disability community. In this entry, which is a companion to this blog on self-advocacy, Keisha shares tips on how allies can help amplify the voices of self-advocates.
While self-advocacy is essential, we also need strong allies—people who are willing to stand beside us, amplify our voices, and help us create a more inclusive world. Allies can make a huge difference in the fight for equality and accessibility, especially when they use their privilege to support others. But how can allies be the most effective in helping those who are advocating for themselves?
Listen and Learn
Allies should start by listening to the experiences of those they wish to support. This means making space for others to share their needs, challenges, and stories without judgment. It also means being open to learning about the barriers others face, even if they don’t directly impact you. Listening is the first step in understanding the unique needs of others.
Speak Up
Being an ally also means speaking up in situations where you witness discrimination, ableism, or injustice. If you see someone being treated unfairly, don’t stay silent. Use your voice to challenge harmful behavior and advocate for change. Your words can help amplify those who may not be heard otherwise.
Advocate for Policy Change
Allies can take their support beyond personal relationships and into larger systems. This could mean advocating for more accessible public spaces, better healthcare policies, or workplace accommodations. When allies use their positions to push for systemic change, it creates a ripple effect that benefits everyone.
Don’t Speak Over Others
One of the most important things allies can do is avoid speaking over the people they’re trying to support. Instead, amplify their voices. Provide opportunities for them to speak for themselves, and ensure they have a platform to be heard. Allies should support, not overshadow, the voices of those they wish to empower.
Be Patient and Stay Committed
Advocacy is a long-term process. It requires patience, persistence, and dedication. Allies should be prepared for the long haul, supporting their friends, family, and colleagues as they navigate the complex systems they’re advocating against. Stay committed to the cause, even when it feels like progress is slow.
Conclusion
As allies, we all have a role to play. By listening, learning, speaking up, and advocating for change, we can help create a world where everyone is heard, valued, and supported. So, whether you’re just starting your self- advocacy journey or you’re already deep into it, know that your voice matters. Keep speaking up. Keep challenging the status quo. And together, we can make a difference. Thank you for reading. I’d love to hear your thoughts on allyship and advocacy, what challenges have you faced, and how have you overcome them? Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow Girls Chronically Rock on social media or reach out to me directly.
With love and empowerment,
Keisha